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Childhood Sexual Abuse

October 27, 2009 by admin · Leave a Comment 

Abuse, in any form, is a manipulative process that begins with trapping a child into a relationship that must be kept a secret, strictly for the benefit of the abuser. For the child, it effectively steals their childhood. The friendship will then begin to evolve into a more sexual experience by the use of graphic material and suggestion, ultimately leading to more intimate touching. The next phase of this kind of child abuse is the start of more direct physical exposure.

Many times subtle or even not so subtle demands for secrecy continue to increase and may include direct or implied threats. The abuser will tell these exploited children that harm will come to them or perhaps a family member if they tell anyone.

Generally, the manipulation will occur subtly over a period of time and most often it is with a trusted person, which results in the child being trapped in a situation with no idea how they got there. The more their mental health declines, the more fearful they become. They are not just afraid of the threats but that they may be blamed and held responsible for what is happening. At this vital point in their childhood, the abuser has managed to physically, emotionally and psychologically trap the child.

However, children in these situations do continue to feel an emotional conflict and it continues to escalate, which then results in the disruption of normal behavior. Since they are unable to tell anyone for any number of different reasons, such as fear or shame, they tend to act out. For school children this may be in the form of poor performance, truancy or even bullying.

When dealing with sexual, physical or emotional abuse one must realize that the problems associated with abuse will generally follow them past childhood into adulthood. This may result in inappropriate boundaries while in a relationship, which in turn may cause them to either withdraw from any type of intimate relationship. As well, it has the potential to push them to the other side of the extreme by engaging in promiscuous behavior. Statements that claim child protection issues, such as sexual abuse, are a crime is an understatement; it is one of the most insidious acts that seriously undermines and affects the social, emotional and psychological well-being of the abuse victim.

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